I would like to use a 3 position switch for the lamps. On-Off-On. The top "On" switch would run the driving beams only when the brights are activated. Off is obvious. When the bottom "on" is activated, the lights will run independant of the headlamp status.
Taking what i learned from here: http://www.rallylights.com/useful_info/ ... wiring.htm I know that i have to apply the fused, constant 12V power supply to relay pin 85 as well as pin 30. Is this correct? Then, the high beam circuit and switch will be applied to pin 86, correct? This doesn't seem right.
If this is correct, then powering the lights is easy and i've got that down, now the switch will be the next step. I've got 3 prongs. I understand this as +, -, +. It seems that if the previous paragraph is true, then the wire coming from pin 86 is hot and therefore i would be connecting a + to the center pin. Does it matter if the center pin is connected to a ground? If not, then i am correct in saying that the other two pins of the switches will need to be connected to two ground points. The upper "on" will be routed back to the headlamp ground, completing the switched-ground circuit for the lamps to be on only while the brights are in use. The lower "on" will be grounding any-ol' where i please, creating the circuit where the lights will be on free of headlamp status.
If this is incorrect, please indicate where i have errored. A diagram or picture would be helpful if possible.

This is the diagram i am looking at from the above website:
