It's not the drivers fault.
After seeing the internals of a Suby tranny, and talking to a VERY intelligent Suby Tech, it's no fault but the trannies.
And it's not why you think.
The gears simply CANNOT handle the power. They are WAY to narrow and WAY to soft to put up with the abuse. In all reality, the gears themselves look Cast.
Myth 1: The tranny breaks because of bad shifting.
False: Synchro's are there for a reason. If you shift with the clutch, you will hurt the synchro's more than the gears.
Myth 2: The case flexes.
FALSE!: This is a big one. The case does NOT flex. I used to think this was the problem. False. Not the problem. First of all, the myth goes that the case flexes and pulls the gears slightly apart, thus putting lots of stress on the gearbox.
In reality, the gear shafts are stacked (not side by side, but stacked). So any "opening" of the case, would not allow the shafts to pull apart.
Also, the bearings have alignment pins that must meet up with the tranny or the case will NOT close. The odds that the case would flex open, spread the gears, then MAGICALLY close back on the alignment pins, is a ridiculously outrageous claim. Doesn't happen.
Also, there is a HUGE girdle in the middle of the tranny. The tranny is BRACED. Think of it like a steel shank in a really good quality hiking boot. The tranny would have to torque out HUGE bolts, and somehow pivot around or on the girdle to seperate.
Also, the bellhousing of the tranny is one peice. The housing is bolted and pinned to the case. If the case opened, the housing would crack.
AND, the transmission is bolted to a horizontally opposed engine. If it did happen to open, it would likely damage the block too.
To top it off and kill this myth: The case is aluminum. If it flexed, it would not flex back. It would crack or shatter.
Simple fact of the matter, the gears are to weak. Straight up, weak.
You want to go 0-60 in 5.4 seconds, you are going to break something, and it will probably be a gear. They are weak.
Want pics for proof?
When the drain plug was pulled, FULL TEETH dropped from the tranny:

The case was FILLED with metal shavings. You can actually see (not in picture) where the teeth actually SHOT out and pinged off of the case. The gear teeth, quite literally, shot peened the case.

And the proof of the pudding, what USED to be 2nd gear:

To solve it all, the following went in place of the stock, crappy gearset. MRT straight cut, synchro'd gears. The strongest, synchro'd box you can build. About the most expensive synchro'd box you can build, too.

Oh, and for those propaganda-ist's who claim the STi RA gearset is bulletproof, they are wrong.
RA on left, stock on right (look at the tooth size). Also look at the smooth portion where teeth used to be....

And there we have it. The proof. The case isn't at fault, the driver isn't at fault, it's the gears and the gears alone.